Prenuptual Agreements

I personally would like to have one of those if I were to get married because who's to say that my husband won't wipe me out of all of my assets if I've got more money than him because I have to secure my assets cause you never know.

Now what's the tricky part about a Prenuptual Agreement?

The tricky part is that if the husband cheats behind the wife's back, he can default on the contract of the prenuptual agreement and the wife leaving with everything and end up testiftying against the husband for his infidelity because like it or not adultery is considered a crime and is illegal and he will just say humilitating things as if she'll humiliate herself if she does testify and just make her feel bad about herself so that she won't demand money and if the woman bought into what he says, it will hurt her and if she doesn't stand up for herself, then she will be lost forever with no confidence in herself. So she'll need to take responsibility for her own actions and if by chance the husband is cheating, he will be the one that''s humiltitaed, not her which will force her to take the stand and that way he's forced to have those papers drawn up with the bluff.

With Prenuptual Agreements, there's good reasons and there's bad reasons and the explanation behind all of this is because depending on the situation and say that if a woman is really there for you, she wouldn't care about the money, but a prenuptual agreement is good for those who's really after your money which you should make it airtight secure.

I have this friend who has a joint account with her boyfriend and I feel that at the age of 25, she shouldn't be having a joint account with her partner all for the simple fact that they're not even married and to tell you the truth, he keeps digging into her account on the strength of them having an account together, now imagine if they were married, he would basically wipe her out.

That's why when two people get married they should have a prenuptual agreement just to prevent that from happening or you can negotiate a prenuptual agreement if you aren't satisfied or whoever's holding the cards because you might have to go up against that person who has control over the prenuptual agreement and some might feel that it's totally standard to have one.

Now alot of people do prenups these days because it's just a merging and protection of the assets and is definitlety necessary because 80% of marriages end in divorce.

I wouldn't get married without one of these to prrotect myself and some prenups are unusual because your partner might just have you on a vesting schedule of getting a certain percentage depending on the agreement, you just have to know and demand what you're worth which is probably just their opening offer.

Some say if you're broke it doesn't matter, but if you're rich then do it.

My friend has mentioned to me that if you're starting off with a basis where it won't work then why should you be entitled to have what you never had because before you met, there should've been a law on both sides because that would keep those gold diggers from marrying that person just for ther money.

But listen here, it works both ways but there's rich women that gold digging men go after just for their money and shouldn't be entitled to what they have and never get half but get something or if you say you don't need a job, but just an apartment.

Some people don't believe in prenuptual agreements because of putting all your trust in that person and another friend of mine had said that if he was rich then he wouldn't need a prenuptual agrrement because of the strength of being rich and if you're married now then he/she might give you 17% of their salary and basically tell you who gives a hell about the rest and if you starve, how can you pay for the child and don't consider the child but only want 17% of the child, but the thing is, when a woman gets social services and welfare on her case, she doesn't get a flat 17% but 85% of help from the governement.

My mother has mentioned to me that with Prenuptual Agreements you have to one cause a person might think that they will marry you for your money.

Now if you sign for thousands and even billions of dollars, the person can't even touch it, but once you sign for it, that's what you'll be getting depending on the amount but know that you can't fight it in the courts. That's why it's important to have one, but can't have more than what you signed and bargained for.

Now if you have money, then that person can try to take you for everything you have, but know that once you sign for a certain amount that's what you'll be getting so even a lawyer can't fight it because you have your signature on it.

So when it comes to Prenuptual Agreements, will you plan to get one knowing that someone is marrying you for your money or clocking your assets and knowing that you have more money than them.

Link: law-info.net