A WARNING before we get started !!!

PLEASE read this first !

• If you can't handle brutally straight talk... don't continue!
• If you want to be told that you are doing everything just right... don't continue !
• If you like to pay for singles sites without getting the results you hope for... don't continue !

If you want to hear what a guy has to say who has been running single sites and bulletin boards for over 15 years, a guy who is an active webmaster for several (un-named) sites... then CONTINUE !

If you can handle an opinionated sermon about what to do and especially NOT to do on singles sites... then CONTINUE !

If you want to find out about some of the things you may be doing wrong... then CONTINUE !